Behavior of The New York Giants Coach Shows What’s Wrong About American Sports
He may be going to the Super Bowl, but New York Giants coach Tom Coughlin is not super.
What is the one moment you may remember about Sunday night’s Giants win over Green Bay, broadcast to millions of people around the world?
Could it be the moment when the Giant’s kicker missed a field goal, and returned to the bench. His greeting from the Giant’s coach was a screaming tirade. It was enough to throw the words “we play as a team” out to the trash. Coughlin showed what he was about. Instead of patting the kicker on the back, and cheering him on. he degraded him in front of the world.
Sure enough. minutes later, the kicker, Lawrence Tynes, missed another field goal, perhaps freaked-out by his selfish coach. Ironically, the same kicker won the game in overtime, but no thanks to the coach.
This is not the first time Coughlin has dumped on his players in public. He trashed the quarterback, Eli Manning, almost the entire season of 2006.
Why I am writing this? Because his actions diminish sports in general, and promote the concept that anger and emotional abuse in managing people is a horrible American trait, in any profession, including pro sports.
Real leaders are managers by example, by positive motivation, and by setting standards high. A manager should be a teacher, a mentor, and a real leader, not pompous or self-indulgent, or ready to shame his employee in public.
Would you ever see Andy Reid do that to a player? Or Charlie Manuel?
The toughest football coaches in the world are also great motivators of people, bringing the best out in them.
That “Tom Coughlin” moment was a disgrace to all of sports. It was a toxic moment in the world of sports, which is, as you know, is all about fun and games. How you lose is as important as how you win. How you win, and the grace you show under pressure, really tells you more about a person than his talent.
This is not sour grapes because the Giants are going to the big show, and not the Eagles. This is a commentary on what counts, for the young people who were watching this moment, and the rest of us who enjoy sports and hate to watch someone take the joy out of it.

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